Thank you @
retrotecchie - I understand your translation of the E.ON Next 'reply' - if that is what they meant to say it was poorly worded.
Our installation is fairly well balanced. The big users (EV and Heat Pump) are three phase and equal across the phases. Things like ovens, washing machines and immersion heaters etc. are single phase which can cause us to be exporting on one or more phases and importing on the others.
I have a superb piece of kit for monitoring our supply (an IoTaWatt for those that are interested) - which samples about 15 times per second per channel. Each device has 14 channels (3 phases uses 3 Channels, one Current Transformer on each) so have a good handle on what is happening to our supply, generation and consumption in much greater detail than I expect a smart meter to report.
When we had the EV charger installed the fuse of each phase was increased from 60A to 80A - at the time they weren't fitting 100A fuses for 3-phase domestic premises - but that shouldn't affect me as I am highly unlikely to draw that amount of current (or able to afford it if I did).
I have booked the Smart Meter installation.
Having done the analysis (thank you, IoTaWatt) the E.ON Next EV tariff makes sense for my house.
It also looks like splitting my Feed in Tariff into Generation and Export and giving up the export (6.9 pence on 50% of Generation) for the Smart Export Guarantee rate that E.On pay (16.5 pence on ACTUAL export) is worth considering. The risk, of course, being that the SEG rates drop below the FiT rates at some point in the future or I consume even more of my self generation than I do at present.